that's a good one...think your description might be right
on the site I suggested about Irish culture there were a lot of odd wedding customs that really scare me off of the idea of getting married there...
I don't want to have shoes thrown at me and then get cake smeared on my head by my mother-in-law! The oats and salt I could deal with...
Although I must say Germany is just as bad with their 'Polterabend'. The night before the wedding the people invited to the wedding throw old porcelain against the front of the house of the couple to be married, or a pub where a pre-wedding party is. The bride and groom have to sweep up the mess no matter what the weather - in snow it's a huge bother! The people in the village are also invited to play along, and whoever throws something has to get invited in by the groom to have drinks until the whole mess is cleaned up!
Okay, useless nonsense post number 1001 by me, sorry folks
